Problems - Need Your Help

[marcoo]

I like this girl but this is girl is hangin out with my best friend what should i do?? It's crazy isn't it? :tsr:

[rosiemay05]

ooh thats a tuff one. are they a couple, coz that would be difficult to know wot to do, depends really whether they are serious about each other or just having fun

Did i mention i am crap at giving relationship advice?! lol sorry hun

[Chrissy1993]

Anything thats on your mind can be said here if you have any probolems you would like to talk about please private message me and i will reply asap also if you want to raise a subject you can do it here

if they aint goin out tell him in private you fancy her and then ask her out. If she likes you she will say yes but if she is shy she will say no so you better hope she is outgoing

[Jellybean]

does anyone know what to do about tumors besides chemo???

[OneBun]

does anyone know what to do about tumors besides chemo???

Jellybean, There is no answer, hun. It is a rough lot seeing the one you love suffer so much. My heart aches for what I hear you going through at this time. As a counselor, I see the pain you are going through come and go every day. All I can say is that you should keep talking about it. It is the best way to work through this difficult time for you. You're in my thoughts, as I hope the best for you. :S :rose:

[Chrissy1993]

please keep sending mesages in of your probolems and i will see how i can help you

[Jellybean]

has anyone heard of mangosteen juice?

[Chrissy1993]

has anyone heard of mangosteen juice?

i will look on google for you if you want me too

[OneBun]

has anyone heard of mangosteen juice?
I can tell you more about it if ya want. Here is some general stuff. Mangosteen is a fruit originally found in Thialand. The white part tastes really good, but you can eat the whole thing! It is a big craze right now especially in Asia, because they found it has some great natural antioxidant vitamins in it. I found a great picture of what it looks like for you:

http://www.4mangosteenjuice.com/images/mangosteen_fruit.jpg

Here is some videos I found (from a Company named "Xango") on it:

http://www.4mangosteenjuice.com/media_high.htm

Have people been telling you it is a natural remedy that you need?

[Jellybean]

well, my friend was telling me about it and said this guy in one of the testimonials said that he had bladder cancer, so he drank a bottle a day for a week and the cancer started to clear up. you never really know if anything is the truth though. i got my husband started on some vitamins and mangosteen juices. that stuff aint cheap! 30 bucks a bottle. but he's only drinking a little bit a day... it only says on the bottle to drink 2 tablespoons a day. hopefully that will keep him around longer then 3 months.

[OneBun]

Our western culture is so niave to Asian foods and remedies. I am not sure if it is valuable for what you want (because I am ignorant to this), but I think if I were in your shoes, I would do the same, if someone suggested it. It is probably so expensive because it has to be shipped to the US from Asia, and it only grows for one short season. It is in great demand in Asia, I am sure!
Anyway, I hope the videos I gave you help some.

[Mistery]

Jellybean, never give up hope and try everything.
I remember when my mother was given up by doctors and then the medicine of a doctor who developed it by himself could heal her all the same. And this medicine was publically discussed very contraversially (and other doctors said of course that this was charlatanry). But still it helped her and 3 other people whom she met coincidentally much later.
So, you never know...

[Jellybean]

thanks guys. :hug2: :hb:

[OneBun]

Here is a little laugh for those who need it:

[marcoo]

you know , there's something i want to scream but i will say it here get ready:

WESTSIDE RULES DUDE!

[Chris-ov-Donny]

i would nevva guess u wud say tht

[marcoo]

hey fellas this is a new thread were you can tell the ppl your problems and we can help you solve them aight?

I hope you dont get afraid to show the ppl your problems becuase... "Two heads think better than one"

:ma:

[Eternal Becky]

Are you talking about problems related to games. If yes then there is already a thread called "Problems"

[marcoo]

no im not talking about that kinda prolems im talking of real problems!

[Jellybean]

yeah, i got some problems. my life sucks, i lost my child and my husband is dying of cancer, ya wanna solve that one?

[Mistery]

No, we can't solve your problems, unfortunately.
But there might be smaller problems that could be solved with the help of other people.
And if you feel that you need to talk about your problems and people who are listening, you can post here or in the chit-chat section. As I already told you, I'm very sorry about your huge problems and critical events that we can't change. I wish I could do more than listening, Jellybean!

[Chrissy1993]

Hey i done this kind of thread and it worked so y do u fink u can do it?

[Jellybean]

sorry, i was just being a sarcastic ***.

[Mistery]

I know and understand it ;-)

[thugthizzle]

I got a problem.My girl left me for another my "former" friend

[Adventure]

does anyone know what to do about tumors besides chemo???

Gen therapy. But you have to go to Japan for it. I wish there more options. It would help so many people.

[Zox_of_D00m]

Make pople understand!

Ok, this thread is for all you fellas that have anyting sad on ur mind or problems of annkind that u want to have said to someone, want to talk about, explain how u feal, and wats wrong.
better to say it than go around whith pain!

here i go, i've got ADHD(loong time ago called MBD, later ADD and now ADHD), if anyone knows what that is. i have often heard that people who dont have ADHD set us with this in a bad light.
well, they just dont know a ****(excuse me for the word) about this. first, ADHD stands for Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. people that has this, and find out that they have early, may get treated for this early and wont get that much more trubble in life(you CANT get ridd of it, you may loose it when you get older, but mostly, you learn to live with it, and learn how "normal" people act). I, personally, found out when i was about 9-10 (now im 14) years old, i use medications, and it is not noticable on my behavior mostly.

find out more here: WWW.ADHD.COM :au:

[Eternal Becky]

@Zox of Doom.
I have merged your thread with "Problems" as we already had a thread similar to the one you posted :)

[Hollandgirl]

Here is a little laugh for those who need it:

@Adventure: Is it just me or is this our queen? The colours would be logical; Orange :D



Make pople understand!

Ok, this thread is for all you fellas that have anyting sad on ur mind or problems of annkind that u want to have said to someone, want to talk about, explain how u feal, and wats wrong.
better to say it than go around whith pain!

here i go, i've got ADHD(loong time ago called MBD, later ADD and now ADHD), if anyone knows what that is. i have often heard that people who dont have ADHD set us with this in a bad light.
well, they just dont know a ****(excuse me for the word) about this. first, ADHD stands for Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder. people that has this, and find out that they have early, may get treated for this early and wont get that much more trubble in life(you CANT get ridd of it, you may loose it when you get older, but mostly, you learn to live with it, and learn how "normal" people act). I, personally, found out when i was about 9-10 (now im 14) years old, i use medications, and it is not noticable on my behavior mostly.

find out more here: WWW.ADHD.COM (http://www.adhd.com/) :au:

first: you can't do anything about it and as you said, wehn you're using medications people don't even know you have it, so why judge you?

second: in holland we also have another explanation of 'ADHD' we say: Alle Dagen Heel Druk, it means something as: every day very busy..




@Adventure: Is it just me or is this our queen? The colours would be logical; Orange :D

I took another good look and i'm sure now, this is our queen, i don't know how you did it OneBun, but you found a picture of Beatrix, koningin der Nederlanden haha :P


This is her normally

[ForeverJoseph]

Im Havin Problems Getting A Gurl For My Skools Dance Becuz Da Hot Gurlz Like Some 1 Else Wat Do I Do?

[zillah0625]

@party4ever
I what you should do is show them what you've got be attractive..or find a girl who is right for you..sorry I'm not really good at advices

[ForeverJoseph]

@ zillah oh its fine thanx!guess what it worked i got a date!!!!!!!!thanx soooo much!

[ILikePizza]

Ok first of all I'm making club and I need help with that (List stated below).
1.I need to raise money for the clubhouse
2.I know that I can make windows XP log on a different computer but someone needs to tell me hoe to do that
3. Can you help think of some more things to make my club a good club?

Second of all you can also use this thread to talk about christmas and I have a problem with that too whish is:
I want to get a Wii for christmas and my grandparents might buy them for me but I need to show theme a place where Wii's aren't sold out can someone help me!!

__________________________________________________ __
Merry Christmas:bigparty:

[Heartofthedark]

ilikepizza - do you mean like a "virtual club"

and try futureshop ;)

ps - the wii's arent that great... i went out and bought one and im very dissapointed with it :( id rather have my n64 back with zelda and mario...

super mario galaxy is a dissapointment

and the twilight princess is too confusing and boring

[ILikePizza]

well i mean both heart of the dark a online one and a real one

and I tryed a wii with super mario galecy i liked it

[Mistery]

Hehe, this time I have a technical problem, and maybe somebody with good skills and knowledge can help me.

I want to completely update my site; all pages are already done, but I have a problem "moving" my guestbook. Therefore I have to wait with uploading the new websites.
I created the guestbook long time ago with an automatic tool that my host provides. Now I have no idea how to apply the new style and the new URLs of my site with the guestbook; and I'm not sure where all those data are stored exactly :sad:

Anyone around who can help me?

[Lilliputt]

Da..... ALIEN needs help with computer gibberish?! *Faints http://www.kolobok.us/smiles/artists/just_cuz/JC_faint.gif*....... uhhhh... *slowly wakes up and realises the alien has posted something.... so reads.... and faints again http://www.kolobok.us/smiles/artists/just_cuz/JC_faint.gif*..... (:P)

No, really. Have you been in contact with the host? If it is a style provided by the host it is not such a simple matter. I have help in sorting it out a bit because our website is gonna get a face lift. So I have had to copy the the script of the site with the editing tool the host provides. As it happens this site even provides the automatic setting in script, i e it is possible for me to change the script that the site automatically makes. So, I really think it should be possible for you to keep the url of the guest book as a link but just change the layout of the guest book. The automatic setting for our site is in the css file. Does that help in any way?

[Mistery]

Not really :sad:
The problem is that I don't get the whole script they use, and where the data are stored of the guestbook. I've looked around a lot, but I'm afraid to mess up things.
Oh, my host is talking TRIPLE COMPUTER GIBBERISH, that not even logical aliens understand :haha:

Anyhow, thanks Lilli :hug2:

[Lilliputt]

Aww... I'm sorry, dear da alien. :( It seems that the host is the only one able ta help then :S
But.... at least you got some new info about inferior humanish computer gibberish for your data base ;) *Hugs favourite alien :hug2:*

[Mistery]

Ah well, for the time being I've uploaded the new pages, I just couldn't wait! :D The guestbook is however not available for now :sad:

Maybe somebody can still help me with that :)

[Lilliputt]

Ahem.... http://www.augk18.dsl.pipex.com/Smileys/PM_smiley.gif... :$

[Mistery]

Replied :P

[Lilliputt]

Me too :D *Feels very helpful... ahem... sorta :$*

[invincible]

Im making a forum but i kinda need some mods :P

Remember when i give the url read the rules!! :P

[someguy]

I would make a good mod.

[invincible]

http://z15.invisionfree.com/Invincible_Fzlife

Thats the forum url :)

[Julibean]

So, I could kind of use some prayers right about now.

They found a lump that was termed "nothing to worry about". Then, they sent me for an ultrasound that was "just a precaution because it's most likely a cyst and nothing to worry about". The day after the ultrasound, my doctor called me. Not a good sign right there. She said that it is solid and I need to make an appointment for a biopsy, but "it looks benign so there's nothing to worry about".

Needless to say, I'm worried.

[RBS]

You got it Juli, starting today.

[Julibean]

Thanks, RBS. It probably really is nothing to worry about, but a little precautionary prayers never hurt.

[ShiningStar]

I hope everything turns out alright Julibean! :hug2:

[RBS]

me too! And we won't even noticed if one little julibean is snipped out of your avatar.

[Julibean]

Cute, RBS.

Thanks, Shiningstar.

[doglover]

I hope it's nothing serious, just like the doctor said, Julibean :hug2:

[Julibean]

Thank you, doglover. Me too.

[humphryboop]

I hope it's nothing serious, just like the doctor said, Julibean :hug2:

Same for me! :hug2: :hug3:

[Mistery]

So, I could kind of use some prayers right about now.

They found a lump that was termed "nothing to worry about". Then, they sent me for an ultrasound that was "just a precaution because it's most likely a cyst and nothing to worry about". The day after the ultrasound, my doctor called me. Not a good sign right there. She said that it is solid and I need to make an appointment for a biopsy, but "it looks benign so there's nothing to worry about".

Needless to say, I'm worried.

Awww Julibean, I'm sorry to hear about this. I sure can imagine how worried/scared you are right now. I keep you in my thoughts and prayers, and hope that everything will be good according to the results of the biopsy. Huge warm :hug2: dear

[Julibean]

Thank you for the hugs and good wishes. I'm still pretty okay as far as the worry-factor goes, it's just kind of in the back of my mind all the time. I just want to get this over with and at the same time my biopsy is coming up way too fast!

This was not the week to quit smoking! :nailbite:

[EscapeGirl]

@Julibean....Aww...I'm so sorry to hear about that. :( I will be sure to keep you in my thoughts and prayers, too. :) Have a friend or family member go with you for support to the biopsy if you can. :) I hope all goes well with it. :hug2::hug2::hug2:

[Julibean]

Thanks, my husband wants to come with me. **snort** I think whatever the outcome, I'll be the one comforting him. ;)

[EscapeGirl]

That's good. :) But I think I know exactly what you mean. :P

[Eternal Becky]

So, I could kind of use some prayers right about now.

They found a lump that was termed "nothing to worry about". Then, they sent me for an ultrasound that was "just a precaution because it's most likely a cyst and nothing to worry about". The day after the ultrasound, my doctor called me. Not a good sign right there. She said that it is solid and I need to make an appointment for a biopsy, but "it looks benign so there's nothing to worry about".

Needless to say, I'm worried.

Ohh I am so sorry to hear this Julibean. Don't worry everything will be fine. You are in my thoughts and I will pray for you.
http://dl4.glitter-graphics.net/pub/926/926094kuj5jxo62d.gif

[Julibean]

Thanks, Becky. I appreciate it.

[jenni.p123]

I soooo hope everything turns out okay Juli huuuuuuuuge :hug2:'s

[Julibean]

Thank you, Jenni. I'll keep you all posted.

[Lilliputt]

So, I could kind of use some prayers right about now.

They found a lump that was termed "nothing to worry about". Then, they sent me for an ultrasound that was "just a precaution because it's most likely a cyst and nothing to worry about". The day after the ultrasound, my doctor called me. Not a good sign right there. She said that it is solid and I need to make an appointment for a biopsy, but "it looks benign so there's nothing to worry about".

Needless to say, I'm worried.

I am glad that the doctor at least said it looks benign. It sounds hopeful to me, Julibean, but I am still so sorry for you. :S Finding out one gots something in ones body that is not supposed to be there is shocking no matter what the doctor thinks. I hope the doctor is right and that you can get rid of it soon. As for stop smoking, well, unless you insist on making this thing grow I'd say to stop smoking is a good thing :P Try candy and give your dentist a run for his money instead :P
Glad your husband will come with you for the biopsy. Let him know that he is only allowed to go with you if he is supportive. We will have bunny spies ta check on him :P
My thoughts and support are with you :hug2:

[Julibean]

Candy won't stay lit, but thanks for the good wishes!

[RBS]

:laughSMILE::rofl-smilie::laughSMILE: Smoking the candy? Keeping your sense of humor is always good medicine. Good for you!

[Julibean]

I try.

UPDATE!!!!!

Said lump has been removed. Find out if it is an "evil" lump or just "confused" lump tomorrow.

**crosses fingers, toes, eyes, etc...** :nailbite:

[Julibean]

See Above Update

[Lilliputt]

You... I... OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH! :o But that is GREAT!! :leb: Lets have a lump... uh...-er party :rog: Congrats, da Julibean!! :appl:

[Julibean]

Let's not get excited just yet. :) They've still got to get the results of the biopsy. That's not until tomorrow (the results, I mean). The good thing is that even if the results are not happy ones, it's not part of me anymore.

[Lilliputt]

Ok, Julibean, I will wait very very impatiently for news and hope with all my heart they are good :)

[RBS]

Hi Juli. Thanks for the update it goes without saying I have been thinking about you and how things have come along. I just want you to know I am pulling for ya. :hug: Your hanging in there great kiddo and I pray this is all in the past real soon.

Take care and stay in touch.

[Julibean]

Thanks, Lilli, I'll let you know...

RBS, thank you, too. Just don't hug too tight, I''m still a little sore!

[Heartofthedark]

Oh... Lumps are not good! :hmm: I bet it was just a vonfused lump that didn't mean any trouble! And if thats the case the problem has been taken care of and all this talk about lumps and sickness can end! :hug2: I hope the doctors say it was a vonfused lump Julibean!

[Julibean]

Thanks, Heartofthedark. Here's hoping! :mpr:

[Mistery]

Thanks for the updates :)
I'm glad that the biopsy is over, and I'm also crossing my fingers that it was just a confused lump :hug2:

[ShiningStar]

I hope that everything will come out great :) :hug2:

[Julibean]

**sigh** Well, I just called again for the results, and now I might have to wait until Monday. I guess no news is good news, right.

In the meantime, I now have every color of the rainbow on my body. Yay.

[Mistery]

Awwww :hug2:
I can imagine how frustrating it is to wait for the results over the weekend :S
I hope you can find things to distract you from it :)

[humphryboop]

I say the same thing as mistery! :hug2:

[Elni]

Julibean

I hope everything will go well for you :hug2: I have my fingers cross for you dear. See the bright sight, you are colofure to wellcome the summer :haha: (A chikenish humor :D )

[Julibean]

It’s Benign!!!!
:dewave:
Thank you, thank you, thank you, to everyone for their good wishes and prayers!!! I won't forget this!! :group-hug:

[RBS]

Wonderful...Fantastic...Yippee...Hooray....Skipady doodah...and most of all what a great relief.

It's a Great Monday in GH

So happy for you Julibean....thanks for posting.

A gift for you
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[Julibean]

:rofl-smilie: Are those candy cigarettes?! Thanks, so much! :hug:

[Heartofthedark]

:hug2::hug2::hug2: :group-hug: Yayyyy! Now you have to believe that all them GH member's prayers actually do something :P :hug2::hug2::hug2: Congratulations Julibean! :high5:

[Julibean]

:hug2::hug2::hug2: :group-hug: Yayyyy! Now you have to believe that all them GH member's prayers actually do something :P

Always, Heartofthedark, always. I'm sitting here crying, I'm so happy! Thank you! :luv:

[flossy k]

Fantastic news ,Julibean , you must feel so relieved and happy now

[Julibean]

I'm happy that my biggest worry will now be whether my daughter gets into full-day kindergarten or not, yes!

[EscapeGirl]

Julibeaaaaaaaaan!!!!! :hug2: YAY!! I'm so, SO, SO happy for you!!!!! It's so great to read such GOOD news!!!! Oh, I'm so happy for you. :D:D:D I can only imagine how nervous and scared you were. And now it's over!!!!

CONGRATS! :hug2:

[ShiningStar]

Julibean Thats wonderful!!!!!! I so happy for you!!! :hug2: :hug2:

[Julibean]

Thank you, Escapegirl and shiningstar!!!! Shall we do the happy-dance? :party:

[EscapeGirl]

*begins to dance* :leb: :happydancing: YAY! It's such good news! :D

[jenni.p123]

Omg! :D That's sooooooo GREAT! :D :party:


http://www.redribbongifts.co.uk/images/pink_white.jpg

:hug2:'s

[Mistery]

Awww, I'm very happy for you Juli!!! :D :hug2:

*Does her happy alien dance*

[Julibean]

This would really rock if we had music!

[Hugo_Smith]

I'm so happy for you Juli! :hug2:

Cue happy music here (http://youtube.com/watch?v=-AAT7Q6xSGs)

[Julibean]

:laughSMILE:Thanks for the music, Hugo, lol. I keep hearing the theme to Austin Powers in my head while we dance, though. :party:

[RBS]

http://www.jamglue.com/tracks/104048 Here's your dance music...:party::party::party:

[hit the big yellow play button]

[Julibean]

:leb:WOO HOO!!! Ya'll are spoiling me (I love it!) :hug3:

Let's play it again!!! :dan:

heeheehee...ONE MORE TIME!!!

[Elni]

Juli I am so happy for you :D Now you can be more relaxed than ever. Keep dancing dear, you disserve it :hug2:

[Julibean]

Hey, Elni! Thanks so much! :)

[PrincessPeach:)]

Hi Juli, that's great news! :)
I have a bit of a problem and I'm quite confused about it,there is this boy that I like, a lot. We have known each other for about a year now, and I've always fancied him, and a "friend" of mine told the whole school about it, the next day everyone was asking me if I was going out with him, it was very embarrassing:(. Then the guy I liked found out and asked me if it was true, I lied because we were quite good friends and I didnt want to ruin that by making things uncomfortable.(This all happened last year).But today I asked him if he wanted to come up to my house, because its Friday we get out of school at 12:00pm. Everything was fine untill I asked if he wanted to watch a movie, after a while I noticed he was moving closer and closer to me on the couch.And it just felt strange because I thought he didnt like me (well, not in THAT way) plus whenever I asked him if he liked me he always denied it. Anyway,he was moving closer to me, then put his arm around me, then (even though its embarrassing saying this!) he started feeling me up! And, even though I was kind of ok with it I did feel really uncomfortable, plus I remember him saying something about him having a girlfriend but I didnt know if he was still with her, I didnt think of asking at the time. I feel pretty guilty now and I'm not sure what to do because I'm going to see him again at school on Monday! :S HELP!!!



Thanks for the advice invincible! :)

[invincible]

@princesspeach:) i dont know much about love but this is what my cousin did. When he loved a girl but didnt know what to do he invited her to the cinema and gave her a gift. then the girl started getting gifts for my cousin and then they got closer and closer but it only works sometimes!
maybe he loves you but he is to scared to admit it. if no one posts then ask your parents because when they loved eachother, something similar might have happened so they should know

[Julibean]

PrincessPeach,

Well, I have to go back aways to when I was 15, but here's what I think.

All boys at that age are stupid. They don't really think about the big picture, it's all about the "now". So, when you were at the movies, he remembered the rumor that you liked him, and thought "let's see where this can go..." It doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't like you too, but they don't think like we do.

What I would do on Monday... act like nothing happened. Play it cool. Don't treat him any differently than you normally would. Basically, make him come to you. If he wants to start a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship and you do too, then fine. If he doesn't, and still wants to be "just friends", try not to be too hurt by that, but I wouldn't let him touch you like that again. Boys take a long time to grow up, (sometimes they hit about 65 or 66 before they start acting like adults). And it's true that at that age, they have only one thing on their minds. But, you've got to be the one to make a choice, here, because he'll just string you along until you tell him to stop.

Good luck!

[PrincessPeach:)]

Thanks Juli, I appreciate your advice. :)
I feel a lot better now! :)


Thanks EscapeGirl :)

[Julibean]

Anytime, dear.:wink:

[EscapeGirl]

I think Julibean has given you great advice, and I think the same thing. I know how confusing things can be at that age. Especially when you do already have a crush on a guy. But one thing I want to add, is never to let anyone make you uncomfortable like that if you don't want to. :) And if there is anything I have learned, is that all the "decent" guys will respect you for standing up for yourself and saying no, or asking questions (such as about his girlfriend he might have.) But I know this was an especially hard situation for you since you have such a crush on him. I'm behind Julibean's advice for ya. ;) I wish you luck on Monday - and play it cool! ;) :hug2:

[PrincessPeach:)]

I have another problem, a friend of mine has just threatened to beat me up when I was chatting to her on MSN. It's because about two weeks ago £20 of my money went missing and she was the only person with me in my house that day, so I told someone about it, and she told my friend. And now she says she's going to beat me up, and I don't know what to do. Anyone got any ideas?


Thanks invincible :)

[invincible]

@princesspeach:)
here are some ways:
1. tell your parents
2. pretend that you found it and it was under the bed or something (might ease the anger)
3. never eat shreaded wheat!
4. well no one can beat you up so tell the teacher straight away when u get to school (get there early)
5. gets some friends to protect you, just tell them and they will help get rid of your angry friend!

[Julibean]

Let me add:

#6. GET SOME NEW FRIENDS!!!! (Geez!)

[Carmit]

i got this friend she rings me nearly every second she wont leve me alone sshhheesss ssooo anoying like i say i cant have friends over (when i relly can) and she still comes down wanting me to walk her to the shops she wont leve me alone and im to nice to yell at her :( geee she annoys mee

[Julibean]

I'm sticking to my prior post.

[PrincessPeach:)]

OK, I've got some good news and some bad news about whats happened to me in the past few weeks. First of all the girl that threatened to beat me up has been expelled from school, so she won't be going near me! :)
The bad news is about the guy that I liked, when I went back into school that Monday, I did see him but he just ignored me, I thought he was just a bit shy after what happened on Friday. But then I asked him to meet me after school the next day, and I knew I would see him because he is in the classroom opposite me. So I waited on him, then I noticed him walking up towards me, he saw me but he just walked past me like I wasn't even there, and he knew he was meant to meet me, he didn't forget or anything. So I think he was just using me and I'm really upset and angry about it. I'm off school now for a month because I'm doing my exams, but the times I do go in to school to do exams I always end up seeing him and it really gets on my nerves because I havn't talked to him since. He's leaving school at the end of this term which is at the end of this month, and I doubt I'll see him again after that, and I want to tell him how he made me feel, I felt humiliated, and I want to do the same to him, I want to get even.
What should I do? :S


Thanks EscapeGirl, Julibean & Hitman for your advice, and I know what you mean, getting even probably wouldn't work. Lets just hope in this case, what goes around comes around!! :) :P

Normally I wouldn't do this, but I think they deserve it, plus noone on this forum would know them, I'm naming and shaming the guy and girl who I thought I could trust: Tom and Chanelle (2 very bad & nasty people!! :) :P lol)

[EscapeGirl]

Aww...PrincessPeach. :hug2: I'm happy to hear that mean girl has been expelled. As far as the guy? I think it's fine if you want to tell him how he made you feel. He needs to know what a jerk he was, and that it is NOT okay. But I wouldn't recommend getting even. That too often blows up in your face. He took advantage of you, and that was just WRONG. But you know what? Karma. It'll come back and bite him sometime. But as for you, I recommend taking the high road, and ignoring him right back. Take it as a lesson learned, and know that you won't ever let another guy make you feel like that again. :) I hope you recover from your anger and pain soon, dear. :hug2:

[Julibean]

This is me agreeing with EscapeGirl.:high5: It will come back to bite him. About a million years ago, something similar happened to me, and then six months ago I ran into the guy and we was working at McDonald's and was really overweight and smelled funny, and he wasn't even a manager or anything! I loved it!!! Thank the good Lord I was looking hot that day! :haha:

As for getting even: don't even bother, he's not worth your time or energy. You are better than that! Go find a cutie who treats you right! :tsr:

[Hitman]

@PrincessPeach

If you want some boy-advice, I can help you there. :haha: I must agree with Escapegirl and Julibean. Just ignore him. Sooner or later, he'll get tired of that and will talk to you. Just play it cool and act uninterested. If he wants to have something with you, he'll talk with you. If he doesen't, that I'm afraid you can't force him. Just get him out of your heart and start looking for someone else... ;)

[Julibean]

Hitman, how old are you? How refreshing for a seventeen-year-old guy to be so honest! Thanks!

[PrincessPeach:)]

Thanks everyone for your advice, and I totaly agree with you Juli, it's not that often now that a guy is so nice and honest, especially in Edinburgh!! lol :)

[ForeverJoseph]

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my problem is that me and my gurlfriend need a song and were not sure what 2 use:( any ideas?:?

[1momomo124]

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